The email arrived.  He seemed very nice, but I hadn't joined as an official member.  I let it go.  Another email arrived a few days later.  Something told me I should pay attention.  Eight months later I am sooo glad I did!!   We are experiencing a relationship that is very fulfilling, fun, and growing all the time.  Where he lives and I live, the possibility of us running into to each other  would have been highly unlikely.  Your website helped make the connection, and for that we are extremely grateful.  
best,
Pam and John